Manifest More by Appreciating What You Already Have

One of the quickest ways to manifest more of what you want is by appreciating what you already have. Sounds too simple? Well, it is true! Most people look around them and don’t feel any sense of content. Instead, they cringe or feel lack. They think about what they don’t have.

Manifest More by Appreciating

Manifest More by Appreciating

Give Thanks for What You Have

What message are they sending to the Universe? That they don’t want more. That they want less of what they actually desire. That they desire lack.

Step back and think about it for one moment. If you give a gift to someone and they don’t express appreciation, then how would you respond? You probably wouldn’t feel compelled to give another gift. The Universe responds in the same way.

Related: 5 Steps to Release Fear and Be Connected to Faith and Love

Be Grateful Even When It Does Not Seem That Way

The fastest and best way to manifest more is by expressing genuine appreciation for what you already have. This may take some time. It may not come easily. Start by trying to express mild like or thanks for what you have. As time progresses, then you will start to see the effects and you will be able to express more genuine thanks.

I have a gratitude journal where I list things I feel grateful for. I practice this especially when I don’t feel grateful or am not having a good day.

Allow More Blessings and Prosperity to Enter Your Life

My mood changes immediately and I notice my vibration also shifts to a more positive one. Like a magnet, your intentions and vibration become stronger and you attract more blessings and prosperity.

What is your biggest takeaway from this post? Please share with me in the comments!

By |2020-07-16T03:21:44+00:00January 15th, 2021|Ramblings, Transformation|0 Comments

Deep Self-Inquiry on Connecting to My Wildly Intimate Woman: 7. Romance

When you think of romance, you think of romance in a relationship or partnership or dating.  You think of how a man treats you and lavishes you with attention, affection, warmth, and his time is what romance is about.  The flowers, candle lit dinners, vacations together, etc.

Romance is about Loving Yourself Deeply, Intimately, Sexily, and Sensually

Romance is about Loving Yourself Deeply, Intimately, Sexily, and Sensually

Yet romance is more than that.  It definitely encompasses all this, yet more than that.  It’s about being in this state of feeling and embodying it daily in your day to day life.  It’s a way of life and how you treat yourself.

Often, how you romance and love yourself is directly correlated to how you feel and how a man or partner and others treat and feel about you. 

Pillar 7 is all about romance and it’s what I focused on recently.  I literally romanced myself for a week or two and let myself soak in the energy of romance.  Being a Taurean, I’m naturally very romantic.

I showered myself with a lot of attention and warmth.  I got myself my favorite roses, cooked myself delicious meals, played with my humor and lightness of spirit, danced, self-pleasured, slept, relaxed, and more.

I got myself new dresses for the new year and dressed nicely and sexily for no reason really, only to shine in my skin comfortably.  In the mornings, I adorned myself with jewelry.  At home in the evenings, I wore lacy dresses and spent time with myself.  I even walked around naked or with very little clothing on because I really love my body.  I never thought I would say that, yet this is now the truth.

I looked at myself in the mirror and was able to find beauty and sexiness within myself.  It’s not that I found myself perfect.  Rather, that I found perfection in my flaws and imperfections.  I found acceptance.

Romancing myself also allowed me to connect to my inner well of deep abundance and richness.  Yes, richness.  That’s the right word.  I felt rich during this divine process of romancing myself.  By rich, I don’t mean materialistically.  I felt rich like feeling fulfilled and filled up with love and sensuality and pleasure.

I came to the realization that this deep abundance and feeling of richness ultimately reflects in other areas of my life – like money, love, sex, pleasure, career, well-being.

When I completed this pillar, I sat down in my apartment and journaled to the following questions.

DO:  How can you feel more romance starting now?  What can you do to romance yourself beautifully, sexily, and sensually?  How did you feel when you romanced yourself?  Did it bring up a bundle of emotions?  How can you incorporate this into your life more?

Another huge realization I had was that romance is the act of loving myself and someone else deeply, intimately, sensually, and sexily.  It is about creating a luscious, divine atmosphere where I am showered with attention, affection, pleasure, warmth, and time.

The process felt very effortless because I was just being me.  I felt I was filling myself with a deep sea and ocean of love and pleasure and sexual energy.  I found myself lovely, delightful, sexy, hot, and a Goddess 😉

I had this deep feeling of surrender, love excitement, mystery, and intrigue for my own life and self.  It did bring up a bundle of emotions at times and I felt vulnerable because I wasn’t used to treating myself this special and beautifully. 

I have a much greater sense of self-worth now and this pillar was eye-opening because it was now in motion and in practice of being a high value woman.  I smiled for no reason throughout this pillar and truly romance is both simplicity and grand acts and gestures of love and affection.

I made a pact to myself that I can incorporate more romance into my life by doing these romantic, sweet things for myself daily everyday.  I can create and carve out time for my schedule.  Perhaps have a day each week devoted to romancing myself.

The next pillar is Intuition and I’m excited about writing about this for the next post.  For now, have a beautiful week ahead 🙂

The tools and practices I used to embody my intention and focus on Pillar 7 Romance:

The Mind (mental intelligence):  Observing my thoughts and belief system on romancing myself and how much romance I felt worthy and deserving of.  I also reflected on how romance fits into an intimate partnership and relationship.

The Body (instinctual intelligence/body wisdom):  I learned to feel romance and love deep in my body and feeling so wildly intimate with myself that I felt this richness, intrigue, and mystery for my own self and life.  I also slept, napped, self-pleasured, ate joyfully, danced and more.  Romancing myself felt wild, breezy, easy, loving, gentle, and sexy all combined.

The Heart (emotional intelligence):  Journaling about the questions earlier I mentioned.

The Soul (higher self/spirit):  Understanding what my higher self wants to lead and teach me.  This week, I learned romancing oneself is mandatory in order to feel fulfilled and filled up and how it reflects in an intimate partnership and relationship.  I also noticed the connection of romance to receiving and transmitting.

Lots of Love,



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By |2020-07-16T01:58:29+00:00January 15th, 2021|Desire, Ramblings, Transformation|0 Comments

5 Steps to Release Fear and Be Connected to Faith and Love

The goal is to not eliminate your blocks and fears completely. The point is have more self-awareness and clear your blocks and fears, so you can move forward with beauty and flow.

Release Fear

Release Fear

Here is an easy step-by-step guide to deal with and release your fears:

Be Aware of Your Fears and Blocks

The first step as I’ve mentioned is to be aware of them. The only way you can deal with them is to first be conscious of them.

Pay close attention to them and how you feel. Ask yourself questions gently: What are you scared of? What fears arise in your heart and mind?

What You Focus On Expands

It’s natural to have fears. But when you spend a ton of your energy and attention on it, then you’re giving it more importance than it should. It becomes more real in your head. Remember whatever you pay attention to expands.

Fear is a Closed Energy – Connect to Love

Fear is a limited, closed energy and prevents you from connecting to your beauty and natural gifts. Fear stops you from connecting to the infinite source – to the part of who you are.

Instead, use love to connect to your heart and soul. It will cause you to trust and surrender more easily.

Bring Yourself to the Present Moment

You over think or over analyze when fear gets in the way. You start having what if scenarios and a million cases play in your head at the same time. Instead of beating yourself up about the past or living in the future, bring yourself back to to the present moment. It’s the only moment in front of you and that’s all you need to pay attention to.

Feel the Body Sensation

When you feel fear, your body responds to it. Your throat will tighten up. Your chest and shoulders will become tense. You’ll feel a nervous energy humming through out your body. The best way to do this is to zero your attention on the part of your body that is reacting. Feel the sensation completely, so you can shake it off and clear the block and fear.

What are your thoughts on this post? Please share with me in the comments.

By |2020-07-16T03:22:26+00:00January 14th, 2021|Ramblings, Transformation|3 Comments

My Sexual Work is Supporting Me to Create Passive Income Streams to Embrace Marriage & Motherhood

Dear Reader,

In all my posts I speak about navigating my sexual transformation journey.  Something else this journey has created is my creativity is blossoming greatly.  I feel ideas and visions float into my mind when I’m sleeping, showering, bathing, or being still.  I am learning to cultivate my sexual energy and not release it immediately and let it stay in my body so I can relish it and nourish it and hold space for this life force sexual energy in my body.

When I hold the energy, my womanhood blossoms and my feminine energy becomes stronger.  I become like a magnet who can draw to her what she desires with much, much, much, much more ease and flow.  Rather than hustling or “working hard” for what I desire, I do the energetic work first and then take the right actions and allow it to flow to me the way the river flows naturally and abundantly.  Life is much easier when I flow.

In this way, my creative energy flows the way my sexual energy flows 🙂  I am seeing how money and sex are connected and since my self-worth is increasing, I also feel more worthy to receive money in healthy, loving, and easeful ways.  I am working on creating passive income streams by creating a digital course based on my workshop that was successful last year.

I am in the creation stage of this digital course and I am putting all my love, sensuality, and energy into this course.  It is exciting and I feel filled with joy and happiness when I work on my digital course.  I feel that my creative gifts are worth receiving money for and the money I receive from this digital course I shall save for my future.

I am giving myself the beautiful gift of freedom, space, and joy by creating passive income streams.  I have an idea for a book I’d like to write, though that will be next year.  There is no rush 🙂  Everything unfolds in its own time naturally and magically.  I am willing to trust the divine timing. 

I am also doing this to prepare for the next phase of my life which is a life with my Beloved.  Our beautiful life together where marriage and children occur and I’d like to focus on him so he can show up fully for his desires and dreams and be the leader in our relationship and life together.

With Love,



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By |2020-06-12T19:03:12+00:00June 10th, 2020|Desire, Ramblings, Transformation|0 Comments